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"Imagine a group of adults playing make-believe like young children, building an elaborate fantasy world with imaginary characters, rules, and events. Except in this case, the adults fully believe their made-up world is real and factual. They passionately discuss the details, promote the existence of fictional beings, and defend the internal logic of their pretend universe as if it were objective truth. To an outside observer, it's jarring and almost sad to see grown adults suspend their critical faculties and wholeheartedly embrace fanciful notions with zero credible evidence. It's as if their ability to rationally evaluate claims has been swept away by a potent mix of wishful thinking, gullibility, and a stubborn self-assuredness that doesn't require proof. This detachment from evidence and reason is akin to the unselfconscious credulity of a child getting swept up in the magic of their own imagination. Except children have the excuse of being, well, children. For ad

Spock is my favorite character in all fiction. A character who bridged the gap between two worlds and faced disdain from each. Who strove for excellence and exemplified strength, character, intelligence, and control. His nearly emotionless demeanor was a perfect foil for those who would attempt to intimidate or insult him. It was a style I would endeavour to imitate to thwart those attempting to insult, demean, or scare me in my own young life. I bought this little figure to remind me to guard against letting my defenses down and allowing emotional hurt to strike me.

  “Nice” is Not a Compliment THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NICE AND KIND. BY NATASHA DELION One of the worst things you can call someone is nice. Being called nice either means you are boring or fake. In my experience, most people I’ve encountered that were described as nice turned out to be the latter, yet each time I was still surprised. I used to believe that it was a good thing when the general consensus for someone was that they were nice, but as I’ve continued to interact with many people like this, I’ve learned that it’s very much a hidden red flag. I wanted to believe that a nice person was on their way to being a kind person. I wanted to believe that everyone was trying to be better to themselves and to others, but I was too optimistic. Niceness can be disguised as kindness which causes difficulty when differentiating between the two. I’ve mistaken someone’s niceness as kindness many times and each time I still felt betrayal when I came to the realization. I’ve learned to fo

  “Every moment of our life belongs to the present only for a moment; then it belongs for ever to the past.” ―  Arthur Schopenhauer,  On the Suffering of the World

  “That's the thing about depression: A human being can survive almost anything, as long as (s)he sees the end in sight. But depression is so insidious, and it compounds daily, that it's impossible to ever see the end.”

  In solitude, you are not merely alone, but have deliberately separated yourself from others. Taken all together, we can therefore define solitude this way:   the intentional withdrawal from social engagement