I just heard that Uncle Jean had to be coded. He has been in Brookwood for the past week after having chest pains that resulted in quadruple bypass surgery. He hasn't been doing so well. He has had a lot of pain and recently had to have a temporary pacemaker installed. I first heard the news that he had coded and we don't know if they can get him back. Then about 20 minutes later, word came that they had a successful code and he was stable.
Effigies are used in grieving by providing a tangible representation of what has been lost, allowing a mourner to connect with who or what they've lost , which can help with the process of acceptance and emotional expression, particularly when the loss is sudden or traumatic; they can be used to focus grief and memories around a physical likeness, offering a sense of continued presence even in their absence