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Disappointment...

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Last night Chris never showed up to pick up David and Max. Nikki spent a sleepless night worrying over what had happened to him. He lied to Bev about working late. Said he would be there by 7:30. He was picked up for DUI this morning around 1:30. He spent the night in jail in Shelby County. We are all very disappointed. Nikki is hurt. We don't know where to go with this. There is the matter of bail. The car is impounded. That will cost money to be retrieved. Then he may have lost his job with Saks since he didn't make it to work this morning. He took his paycheck and most likely spent it. Nikki still has bills to pay. She doesn't know where the money will come from. I haven't volunteered any. Let him stay in jail.

I put the new freewheel on the tandem. It really helps having that low gear. I didn't change out the chain since I won't be using the big to big combination anyway. Monday I should have the tires and the new seat post for the front. Tomorrow morning I may go do a ride with Sara. We missed riding this morning. But I had ridden every other day this week except Monday so I guess I can miss one day. It was a lovely day to miss though.

It looks like we won't get to do the rides we planned for the quilters weekend. Who knows? We might have to take the boys along.

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