On July 8th 2010, my Mom passed away. I was due to arrive at the hospital within 15 to 20 minutes. But by all the accounts, she had a pretty good morning and she passed easily. All our family gathered including my cousins from South Carolina, D.C., and Washington State. Many friends and co-workers came by to pay respect and love. My cousin Joe Castleberry delivered her eulogy. We will all miss her so much.
Effigies are used in grieving by providing a tangible representation of what has been lost, allowing a mourner to connect with who or what they've lost , which can help with the process of acceptance and emotional expression, particularly when the loss is sudden or traumatic; they can be used to focus grief and memories around a physical likeness, offering a sense of continued presence even in their absence