In a text from Joe Castleberry, another running proposition was made. He suggested he come to Alabama to run a half marathon here with me. I asked when. He said spring. After a quick search, I saw there were two in the spring of next year. One in Scottsboro. The other in Tuscaloosa. He chose the one in Tuscaloosa. That gives him the option of visiting the cousins there. Now here I am...overweight...no training since last year....and I have a training to do. I guess I need to get busy.
Effigies are used in grieving by providing a tangible representation of what has been lost, allowing a mourner to connect with who or what they've lost , which can help with the process of acceptance and emotional expression, particularly when the loss is sudden or traumatic; they can be used to focus grief and memories around a physical likeness, offering a sense of continued presence even in their absence