Tomorrow we will begin to say farewell to our Uncle Jerry. It has been a particular kind of grief over his loss. It is the passing of a generation. The last of my Mother's brothers. So much memory gone. It all passes so much sooner than you want it to. He was a funny, loving person who will be missed by many, many friends and family.
Effigies are used in grieving by providing a tangible representation of what has been lost, allowing a mourner to connect with who or what they've lost , which can help with the process of acceptance and emotional expression, particularly when the loss is sudden or traumatic; they can be used to focus grief and memories around a physical likeness, offering a sense of continued presence even in their absence